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FOMO in the Digital Era: How Social Media Affects Our Mental Health
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FOMO in the Digital Era: How Social Media Affects Our Mental Health

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Gusti Ayu Tita

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calendar_today 23 Desember 2025

The rapid development of digital technology has changed how people interact, share information, and build social relationships. Social media has become an inseparable part of daily life, especially for younger generations. However, behind the convenience and entertainment it offers, a psychological phenomenon has gained increasing attention: FOMO (Fear of Missing Out). If not recognized and managed properly, this phenomenon can have a significant impact on mental health.

WHAT IS FOMO?

FOMO is the feeling of anxiety or fear of being left out when seeing others appear to enjoy certain experiences, achievements, or moments. Social media strengthens this feeling through posts that showcase the best aspects of someone’s life, from vacations and academic achievements to seemingly perfect social lives.

Without realizing it, individuals begin to compare their lives to what they see on their screens, even though the reality behind those posts may not reflect the truth.

THE ROLE OF SOCIAL MEDIA IN TRIGGERING FOMO

Social media platforms rely on algorithms that continuously present engaging and relevant content. This encourages users to stay active, constantly check notifications, and keep up with the latest trends. Excessive exposure to such content can trigger social pressure, dissatisfaction with oneself, and the need to always be digitally present.

The more time someone spends on social media, the greater the likelihood of experiencing FOMO, especially when viewing the achievements or lifestyles of others that appear more successful.

THE IMPACT OF FOMO ON MENTAL HEALTH

FOMO does not only affect momentary emotions but can also influence mental health in the long term. Common effects include:

  • Increased anxiety and stress
  • Decreased self-confidence
  • Sleep disturbances due to social media addiction
  • Feelings of dissatisfaction and difficulty feeling grateful

If left unmanaged, FOMO can worsen mental health conditions and reduce overall quality of life.

HEALTHY STRATEGIES TO COPE WITH FOMO

Dealing with FOMO does not mean completely abandoning social media, but rather using it more mindfully. Some practical steps include:

  • Limiting time spent on social media
  • Remembering that what is shown online does not always reflect reality
  • Focusing on personal achievements and happiness
  • Engaging in offline activities that provide meaning and calm

Self-awareness is the key to ensuring that social media remains a supportive tool rather than a source of mental pressure.

TURNING SOCIAL MEDIA INTO A POSITIVE SPACE

Social media can also be used as a platform for sharing inspiration, education, and emotional support. By following accounts that promote positive content and fostering healthy interactions, users can reduce the negative impact of FOMO and improve mental well-being.

Managing expectations and maintaining balance between digital life and real life are essential steps toward protecting mental health in the digital era.

CONCLUSION

FOMO is an increasingly relevant phenomenon amid the dominance of social media in modern life. Although it cannot be completely avoided, FOMO can be managed through awareness, emotional regulation, and healthy social media use. With the right mindset, social media can be beneficial without sacrificing mental health.

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Gusti Ayu Tita

Author — STEKOM University

An active author focused on academic issues, educational technology, and human resource development in the campus environment.